ExitCode is used in several internal modules and hooks and so with type
annotations added, needs to be imported a lot.
_pytest.main, being the entry point, generally sits at the top of the
import tree.
So, it's not great to have ExitCode defined in _pytest.main, because it
will cause a lot of import cycles once type annotations are added (in
fact there is already one, which this change removes).
Move it to _pytest.config instead.
_pytest.main still imports ExitCode, so importing from there still
works, although external users should really be importing from `pytest`.